Connecting with our partners is essential for conscious conception. We want to make sure that we and our partner are both on the same page when in comes to bringing a child into your life. If there are stress and tensions at this level it can really negatively affect the outcome of our efforts.
If making love to try to conceive turns into a chore, it can become very damaging for your relationship. Have you ever dealt with this situation? I think it's important to keep that in mind and make sure that although there is a short window of opportunity when you ovulate to fertilize the egg, to take the time to make the process as pleasurable and seamless as possible.
One time, when we were trying to conceive, my husband and I fell into that trap. At the time, my dad was staying with us and so we had an extra short window of time to make love while he went out to run errands, so we ran upstairs took our clothes off and got down to business. Let's just say that it wasn't worth it. Making love because you "have to" is no way to conceive. It's important to take the time to consciously set yourself up for success. Don't force it. Get sexy, seduce each other, play around, laugh and make sweet love like you are meant to.
If you want to get more spiritual, you can also take the time to create a sacred space and call in the soul you want to invite into your life before making love. Conscious conception is an act of opening to your partner in a place of absolute surrender to the Universe, God, destiny or whatever you want to call it.
How do you connect with you partner?
This content was covered in Episode 004 of The Plantiful Mama Podcast.