Today I want to share with my take on love! Since this month's theme is love and relationships I wanted to kickstart it with a how to find your soulmate video! So in the beginning of the video, I share with you all my story, from believing in prince charming, to giving up and find hope again, and finally finding my one and only true love. I'm gonna skip all that here, so make sure you watch the video ;)
So here are a few of my tips on how to find love :
1) Learn to love yourself first
It's important to understand that it can be very difficult to find a person that truly loves you when you can't even love yourself. No need to be egocentric and forget to be modest, but being able to be alone with yourself without feeling lonely. You need to be able to be your own person, be ok by yourself and ultimately know yourself enough to know what is right for you and what isn't.
2) Stay true to your beliefs
No matter what your beliefs and values are, stick to them! Don't let people convince you or tell you otherwise. What you want is out there, and you gotta be patient and believe in it!! Don't get discourage, and don't get influenced by what you see others do! You don't have to be like them!!
3) Stop looking for love
The more you look, the less you find! In order to be able to be open for love, you need to let go! Stop trying to control it or make it happen! Let things happen on their own. Don't try to impress people or change yourself or your standards, just be yourself and should be yours will come to you!
4) Trust the universe
Along the same line, trust the universe. If something you desperately wanted to work out doesn't, it must be because something better is waiting for you out there! Everything happens for a reason! Be patient!
5) See people for what they are
Don't get your hopes up, stop trying to identify a certain ideal! Your soulmate isn't just a bunch of qualities to check off some checklist, it's a person, a wonderful person! Let people be themselves! Don't put pressure on yourself to try to impress someone! The right one will love you just they way you are and will see beauty in your flaws! Don't have so much expectations, just be open for anything, you never know what might come your way!
To me love is the strongest feeling. It's someone who makes you better by simply existing and someone who make you want to be better for them! It's someone who inspires you, challenges you. When you love someone, their happiness matter so much, it's an integrant part of your own! Love is someone who supports you through the tough times and is there to share the best times! Love truly conquers all and makes everything brighter!
Alright so that was my take on love!! Don't call me Dr. Love just yet but I hope this helped!!
Watch my video on the subject: www.youtube.com/watch?v=5oM6D7pHM_Y